There is no doubt that an open communication channel is the key for a successful relationship. The question in most cases however is how to get your husband to speak. Women talk about things much more openly than men. So if you are not getting what you want, you might want to consider making some changes.
Choose when to approach
Men can sometimes feel like they are under pressure and close down so it's important to approach them when they are relaxed and responsive. Try to see when this happens look to add any inquiries you might have into an existing conversation. Make it look natural and don't press it.
Pick the right time
You don't want to blow a chance just because you lost your patience. Be sensitive to when it is a good time to talk and be careful not to approach when your partner is tired or preoccupied.
Provide a personal example
It is important to give your partner an example of the time of sharing you are looking for. So whenever possible, look to provide intimate information about your feelings and hopes. Talk about your past experiences, about your fears and your fantasies. This will help him see that sharing is not that bad.
Always look ahead
It's important that you don't keep bringing on past events when you talk about your own feelings. Talk more about how you've changed and how the past is behind you. Men love to move forward and don't enjoy revisiting old topics that they thought were already behind you.
Don't criticize his ideas
In many cases your partner may talk about far fetched ideas that you will not agree with. It's important however to let them talk and express these desires before you respond. Remember, our objective is to get him to open up.
Stay attentive
Once your partner has opened up it is crucial to support that. In most cases is will be very discouraging for him if you get distracted. So make sure to tune off that Blackberry and be attentive and in the moment. Let him speak for himself and try not to jump in to complete his sentences.
With all my heart, I wish you the love, light and happiness you deserve. - 30438
Choose when to approach
Men can sometimes feel like they are under pressure and close down so it's important to approach them when they are relaxed and responsive. Try to see when this happens look to add any inquiries you might have into an existing conversation. Make it look natural and don't press it.
Pick the right time
You don't want to blow a chance just because you lost your patience. Be sensitive to when it is a good time to talk and be careful not to approach when your partner is tired or preoccupied.
Provide a personal example
It is important to give your partner an example of the time of sharing you are looking for. So whenever possible, look to provide intimate information about your feelings and hopes. Talk about your past experiences, about your fears and your fantasies. This will help him see that sharing is not that bad.
Always look ahead
It's important that you don't keep bringing on past events when you talk about your own feelings. Talk more about how you've changed and how the past is behind you. Men love to move forward and don't enjoy revisiting old topics that they thought were already behind you.
Don't criticize his ideas
In many cases your partner may talk about far fetched ideas that you will not agree with. It's important however to let them talk and express these desires before you respond. Remember, our objective is to get him to open up.
Stay attentive
Once your partner has opened up it is crucial to support that. In most cases is will be very discouraging for him if you get distracted. So make sure to tune off that Blackberry and be attentive and in the moment. Let him speak for himself and try not to jump in to complete his sentences.
With all my heart, I wish you the love, light and happiness you deserve. - 30438
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